16 Elegant Tea Party Games For Your Next Gathering

If you’ve ever been to or planned a tea party, you know it involves a lot more than sipping Earl Grey and snacking on scones—there also needs to be plenty of entertainment! Today, we’ve gathered 16 elegant tea party games that are fun for all ages. So whether you’re planning a bridal shower or kids’ birthday party, there’s sure to be something here that will keep the fun flowing.

While looking through these awesome ideas, you may be inspired to take your tea party to the next level. The best way to do that is by finding a venue that matches the theme. And where do you go to find the best local venues? Peerspace—the world’s number one peer-to-peer marketplace for hourly venue rentals. Fantastic options are available for indoor and outdoor parties in your area, so get searching!

1. Break the ice while the tea is steeping

One of the aspects that makes tea so elegant is the patience required to brew it. Not only do you need to wait for water to boil, but tea also needs to be steeped for several minutes to bring out the full flavor. While you and your guests wait, go through some icebreaker activities to get the conversation flowing easily!

This is easier to accomplish when you host your tea party in a comfortable, welcoming setting, which Peerspace can help you find. For example, check out Tea Blossom Tea Room in San Antonio, TX. It’s an all-white, flower-filled tea haven with space for up to 30 guests.

2. Play what’s in your purse?

Another way to get your guests talking and sharing common interests is by playing a game of “What’s in Your Purse?” Similar to a scavenger hunt, players score points by having specific items in their purse—something they’ll already have with them ready to go when they arrive.

3. Be “Mad like a Hatter” with Alice-themed Scattergories

What would any list of tea party games be without some reference to the classic story Alice in Wonderland? This game of themed Scattergories is a fast-paced and zany good time that would be worthy of any Mat Hatter tea party.

Everyone loves themed parties, and our whimsical Mad Hatter tea party ideas help you further embrace an Alice in Wonderland tea party!

4. Work up an appetite with “Name That Cake”

Another required addition to any tea party is ample desserts—preferably pastries and cakes! To build up excitement for the sweet treats awaiting your guess, quiz them on various kinds of cakes with this quirky activity.

Make this tea party game come to life when you book a venue like this industrial tea room in Agoura Hills, CA. The host offers an array of organic teas plus plant-based bites, all served in its chic, modern setting.

5. Or host a bake-off to dazzle with your skills

Looking for ways you can inject a little healthy competition into your tea party games? Incorporating some kind of bake-off, whether it’s cookies, pastries, or cakes, is a wonderful way to alleviate the burden of hosting and provide a plethora of desserts to enjoy.

6. Make memories with a selfie scavenger hunt

Sometimes we may intend to take pictures of our event, only to get so caught up in having fun that none get taken. A simple and fun solution to this problem is a selfie scavenger hunt, where guests will be challenged to pose in a variety of silly ways for points!

To make the most of tea party games like this, you need a spacious, stylish setting. We have just the venue for you — this rustic event lounge and tea room in Chapel Hill, SC. There is plenty of space for playing selfie scavenger hunt here, not to mention an array of delectable teas to sample!

7. Test your knowledge of the history of tea

If you’re looking for tea party games for a group of true aficionados, there’s no substitute for a classic trivia game. Whoever is the winner should be given a fun prize, such as a box of their favorite tea or a new mug.

8. Play a game of “Would They Rather?”

Oftentimes, tea parties are the perfect theme for a bridal shower. A game of “Would They Rather?” where guests try to guess how the bride and groom would respond to a selection of questions, pairs nicely with any cup of tea.

9. Test your etiquette knowledge

Prefer the pomp and circumstance that goes along with tea time? A quiz based on etiquette may better suit your fancy tea party. The perfect setting for this tea party game? The Empressa, a beautiful tea room and patio in Temecula, CA. It’s the perfect place for enjoying tea and putting your etiquette skills to the test.

10. Play a game of decorum or deceit?

Keeping with the theme of etiquette, this silly activity will test your unsuspecting guests to see if they can sniff out which tips are true, and which are trash.

11. Scramble words, not eggs

You don’t typically see scrambled eggs at a tea party, so if you’re going to scramble something—try words! This tea-themed word scramble is perfect for the kids’ table while they wait for dessert.

12. Invite everyone to “spill” the tea

If you’re unfamiliar, “spill the tea” is also slang for dishing out some truth. This funny fishbowl game is great for learning a little more about your guests—for better or for worse!

13. Serve up laughs with Mad Libs

Want to add a bit of levity and laughs to your tea party? Mad Libs are a surefire way to encourage peoples’ silly side to come out—just make sure nobody is sipping tea while you read them!

14. Give out tea party gifts in a unique way

Passing out gifts at your tea party? Don’t do the typical boring way—this pass-the-prize game adds a fun and cheeky twist to the formula!

Need some gifting inspiration? Then check out our guide on elegant tea party favor ideas next!

15. Search up good times with a word search

For a tea party that’s going to be mostly attended by young children, it’s good to have some easy activities on standby. One of the best options is word searches, these can keep kids occupied and keep the theme of the party fresh in their minds.

16. Gather round for tea party Bingo

Tea parties are all about variety! That’s why they make such a good subject for Bingo games. You can keep with the traditional rules, or go for a scavenger hunt style game where guests try to find the Bingo board items around the party. Renting a dedicated bingo hall for tea party games like this is a nice touch and sure to delight your guests.

Tea party games: conclusion

We hope these tea party game ideas have you looking forward to your next tea-themed gathering even more than ever. While it’s great that you’re thinking of your guests’ enjoyment by planning games, remember that your tea party setting is also very important.

Rely on Peerspace to connect you with amazing spaces that bring all your events to life. We can help you book industrial lofts, charming gardens, cozy cafes, furnished rooftops, chic art galleries, and pretty much any other type of venue you can think of!

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