14 Spectacular 35th Birthday Party Ideas (2025)

Looking for some spectacular 35th birthday party ideas? Then you’ve landed at the right place! As the largest online marketplace for hourly venue rentals, Peerspace offers you access to thousands of stunning spaces in cities across North America and beyond.

A few examples of the types of spaces you can rent through Peerspace that would make amazing birthday party venues include sky-high penthouses, elegant lofts, cabins in the woods, farmhouses in the country, and galleries in the heart of the metro. Plus, when you book a Peerspace, you can count on the venue’s local host to provide support in any way you need.

You are halfway through your 30s, but that’s no reason to start slowing down now! Keep the birthday energy rolling by throwing an unforgettable 35th birthday bash. Here are 14 spectacular 35th birthday party ideas to make this birthday extra special.

1. Book a Peerspace that’s as cool and stylish as you are

Make your 35th birthday unforgettable with a private party venue rental you and your guests will love! Whichever party themes, activities, and ideas you choose — there is a unique venue to match on Peerspace.

In fact, Peerspace offers everything from mansions and castles to cabins and beachside cottages. So you can enjoy your birthday anywhere while doing just about anything!

For inspiration, here are some of our favorite Peerspace venues ideal for your 35th birthday:

• This secluded designer Malibu beach house (pictured above) with space for 45 guests, optional private beach access, speakers, a garden, and use of a tiki bar.
• This glamping yurt/tent in a wooded sanctuary in Alfred, ME with space for 20 guests, a barbecue grill, campsite, and Wi-Fi access.
• This beautiful event space in the Mission District in San Francisco, CA with space for 40 guests, an open layout, a BYO policy, an on-site kitchen, and A/V equipment.
• This beautiful gallery space for events in London, UK with space for 20 guests, an open floor plan, and plenty of options for customization.
• This upscale South Loop event loft in Chicago, IL with space for 25 guests, lux furnishings, a lounge, a full bar, seating, and optional catering services.
• This outdoor party house near Houston, TX with space for 80 guests, a pool, an outdoor lounge, a billiard room, a sound system, and a grill.

Fun, right?! Check out all the gorgeous venues available in your area and book your favorite in mere moments. And remember, the assistance of the venue’s host means you don’t have to go it alone. Ask them to arrange for bar staff, catering, karaoke machines, and whatever else you like!

2. Take a road trip with a #35 theme

Adventure awaits! Hop in the car and celebrate your 35th birthday with a road trip. Also, don’t forget to stop at mile 35 for a selfie! For more “35” themed fun on your road trip, organize a trip down I-35. It stretches from the Mexico border in Texas to the Canadian border in Minnesota!

Speaking of Minnesota, consider throwing a 35th birthday dinner party before passing through Minneapolis at this uptown industrial mid-century studio on the Greenway. It’s an adorable event space with a beautiful seating area, a kitchenette, and optional access to its patio.

“This is a perfect space for an intimate gathering,” shares a Peerspace reviewer of this Minneapolis studio. “The ambiance is so lovely in the evening especially when you light the place by candle light. Leslie is an exceptional host with a keen know how in entertaining. She also has a beautiful collection of candle sticks, glasses, plates, silver, and anything else you may dream of all under one roof. I give mad props to her and the space.”

3. Come dressed as your favorite star

You’re not alone in turning 35 this year — so are many famous celebs! Check out all these stars turning 35 right alongside you. You are reaching this milestone alongside A-listers like Taylor Swift, Daniel Radcliffe, and Tyga, to name a few. Challenge your guests to dress like one of their favorite 35-year-old celebs for a great conversation ice-breaker and party theme that no one will forget.

Hosting your A-list party in the modern architectural wonder that is this Bel Air mansion in Los Angeles, CA can only improve a celebrity-themed party. It’s infinity pool, floor-to-ceiling glass walls, and killer views of the canyon and ocean will definitely leave your guests gasping with excitement.

Planning a huge surprise for a loved one’s 35th? Then you need to read our cool surprise birthday party ideas first!

4. Channel your inner billionaire by renting a baller mansion

Playing off our last idea, why not play the role of powerhouse secluded billionaire for a day? How? Don’t move a muscle! Hire someone to clean the house, ask a chef to cook for you and your friends, pay for a nanny to take care of the kids, and shell out for an at-home massage.

If you’d rather have a bit of space away from home to celebrate your big day with friends and family, then rent a mansion on Peerspace to channel those billionaire vibes!

Some of our favorite mansion rentals include:

• This lux Brooklyn beach house in Sheepshead Bay, NY with space for 50 guests overlooking Shell Bank Channel.
• This epic Victorian mansion in Oakland, CA with space for 70 guests, a landscaped garden, a grand foyer, a large kitchen, and high ceilings.
• This Victorian mansion in Lancaster, PA with space for 50 revelers, seven bedrooms, five fireplaces, a grand staircase, manicured gardens, and a separate carriage house.
• This stunning country house in London, UK for intimate gatherings with up to 10 guests, with historic Tudor beams, wood and stone floors, tree-lined lawns, and a pool.
• This modern Atlanta mansion (pictured above) with a pool, jacuzzi, private movie theater, and tons of open space.

Though these are some of our favorite mansions that you can rent by the hour on Peerspace, they’re by no means the only ones. Check out Peerspace to see what’s available near you! No one needs to know you’re only paying by the hour — this is just your new lifestyle!

5. Relax with a 35th birthday yoga retreat

Channel your inner yogi with a yoga retreat this birthday! This wellness retreat location nestled in nature would be perfect for a relaxing day of meditation on the yoga decks. It’s located in Molalla, OR, and boasts waterfalls, streams, foothills, and a 100-year-old cabin, all on 250 wooded acres.

And if you live in a big city like NYC, there are still great options for relaxing wellness retreats, like this creative production and wellness center in Brooklyn (pictured above). It includes a salt cave, a wellness womb, a crystal sound bath atrium, and dance floors for your use.

6. 35 is the perfect year to become a wine connoisseur

Don’t just age like a bottle of fine wine — age with bottles of fine wine! Wine tastings are a fun way to learn something new with friends and family alike.

You probably know of a few cute wine bars in your neighborhood, but how do you go about booking them for your private event? You can rent wine bar spaces on Peerspace that include wine tastings at gorgeous Napa Valley speakeasy-style wine bars and Virginia barns with vineyard views!

And there are plenty of options for wine tastings no matter where you live. Just search here for fun beer and wine-tasting venues near you.

7. Keep sharp and discover a new hobby

You may not be able to teach an old dog new tricks — but you sure can teach a young, spritely 35-year-old new hobbies! This year’s the year to learn a new skill and learn to love a new hobby.

Whether you’ve always wanted to try your hand at making a movie, learn how to ride a horse, become a content creator, or learn to sew — no time is better than now. Hire a professional to teach you and your friends how to do something new and fun this birthday!

8. Treat yourself and splurge on something you’ve always wanted

We’ve all got things in our Amazon cart that we look at and go … “I would love to own that, but I just can’t. It’s too expensive.” But not today! On your special day, treat yourself to that special something you’ve always wanted. After all, it’s your party, and you can buy what you want!

9. Party low-key with a picnic and your favorite people

If you are looking for 35th birthday party ideas that don’t take too much planning but are still loads of fun — consider inviting your friends out for a picnic. Ask everyone to bring a different picnic dish to share and enjoy the day with all your closest friends in a laid-back environment!

If you are looking for something a bit more formal, then consider renting an outdoor party space on Peerspace for your picnic. One of our favorite suggestions is this enchanting Spanish villa courtyard in Santa Ana, CA. Set up a catering team in one of its three kitchens and dine with your guests in the gorgeous courtyard. Stroll the manicured gardens after eating and end the day by taking a dip in one of the two pools as the sun sets. It’s a jaw-dropping venue with super reasonable rates, and sure to help you create amazing memories!

10. 35 is the perfect age to reinvent yourself

Make 35 different with a new you. Try out a new hair color, get a tattoo, buy a new wardrobe, or schedule an appointment with a beautician to teach you a new way to do your makeup! Start 35 with your best foot forward — take the time this birthday to look and feel your best.

Craving more suggestions? Then discover our 15 creative birthday party ideas here!

11. Soak in hot springs to feel refreshed and rejuvenated

The hot springs are calling! Forget a cold pool or a small bath — relax in warm, spacious hot springs for your 35th. Soaking in hot springs not only feels wonderful but also provides a host of health benefits. And you don’t have to search high and low to find your nearest springs. Peerspace can connect you to great options like this historic home in New Lebanon, NY with private hot springs that you can rent, so the only other people in the pool are the friends you want there!

Love the idea of spending your birthday en plein air? Then you need to see our awesome outdoor birthday party ideas next!

12. Be a tourist for a day and explore someplace new

Just because you’re staying close to home for your birthday doesn’t mean your 35th birthday ideas can’t be unique and adventurous! Treat your birthday like a tourist would, who’s visiting your hometown for the first time.

Tour your local museums, celebrate at a gorgeous beach house venue, and snorkel with all the other visitors! Rent a ranch on Peerspace and ride horses with friends while exploring the local terrain. We love the idea of escaping to a Peerspace ranch like Rider’s Retreat in Kiowa, CO to ride horses, learn to throw lassos, and soak in the hot tub after a long day of exploring with your loved ones.

13. Make it the day of your dreams

Imagine the day of your dreams — what does it look like? Whatever it is, do just that! Lounge around in your PJs until noon, take a bath and enjoy a glass of wine, grab a beer with your closest friends, or go on the trip you’ve been planning for years.

The best 35th birthday party ideas are just committing to do the things that make you most happy. It can be an all-out bash with hundreds of friends or a quiet night with your special someone. Whatever those perfect birthday plans are for you, then go ahead and make them happen!

14. Plan a 35th birthday professional photoshoot

Not everyone is an influencer or model, but that doesn’t mean you can’t easily play one for the day. Celebrate the start of a new year with a real-life photoshoot! Start by booking a Peerspace photoshoot location that catches your eye, such as this natural light industrial photo studio in downtown Detroit, MI. Its sunny, rustic ambiance combined with its chic, modern furniture all set the scene for the perfect birthday photoshoot.

A Peerspace reviewer shared the following helpful tidbit about this studio: “Bryana [the host] was great to work with. The space was amazing. I am already planning another booking!”

After booking your photo studio, review these top event photographers to find a professional photographer in your city. Before you know it, you’ll be all glammed up, looking and feeling like a billion dollars, and with a horde of photos to treasure forever.

Peerspace brings your 35th birthday party ideas to life

A 35th birthday is the start of the end of your thirties. But that doesn’t have to be a bad thing! Utilize a few of these 35th birthday party ideas and you’ll start this new year swinging.

Book an exciting party venue near you through Peerspace to get things started. And be sure to consult your venue’s local host so they can handle all the extras. This is going to be a party you’ll never forget and always treasure!

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